A Late Winter Meditation

The snow is falling steadily now as the sun gets ready to set on an early March evening. The temperature is still too warm for anything to stick, but they say we should have around 8 inches before the weather winds down tomorrow morning. There is a specific point on the globe, 40 degrees north latitude and 70 degrees west known in meteorology as “the Benchmark.” When a developing winter low-pressure system travels up the east coast, its proximity to the benchmark will determine the type of precipitation that New York and other east coast cities receive. A path east of the benchmark means more cold air but less snow, west of the benchmark and we’ll probably receive a mix of rain and snow or even all rain from the winter storm. If, however, the storm’s center tracks more or less across the benchmark, and the other ingredients are assembled (cold air, moisture, etc.), then we might see a decent amount of snow. Tonight’s storm is predicted to be fast moving, and some mixed precipitation (sleet, rain, freezing rain) might mix in suppressing snow totals as it meanders over or near that otherwise insignificant point out in the Western Atlantic ocean.

But for now, the snow lightly begins to fall. Each flake quickly melting as it touches the various surfaces outside the window: the rusted metal fire escape, the protruding row of yellow brick soldiers standing proud of their neighboring courses, uncollected trash bags, the hood of a car, and the street and sidewalk beneath it all. If the forecast verifies, these objects will hold several inches of snow, and we will see them differently. We will notice the details of the building’s brick pattern through the way the snow has collected in geometric shapes. The snow will reveal a bike that has been chained to the streetlight for over a year, its rusting frame barely noticeable against the equally as rusty streetlamp base. But, covered in a layer of white, these things take on a new identity and don’t escape our awareness on our morning dog walk. In fact, even the way in which we walk on a snowy sidewalk becomes mindful: a missed step results in a shoe full of slush or worse, a slip.

Over time, we become familiar with our surroundings, the details fall away, lulled by a sense of redundancy — not noticing the myriad of textures, details, and even people that make up our everyday world. The character of a block or neighborhood only revealed through novelty: fall leaves, a snowstorm, demolition, and construction. What would it be like to notice more? To seek out novelty without a benchmark crossing weather system? Distracted by thoughts and screens, the spaces and places of our every day are replaced by our time traveling minds (what am I making for dinner? I wish I would have spoken up in that meeting. etc.) or the endless streams of novelty swiped across our screens. Tomorrow, we’ll wake up and, for a few hours, until the sun warms the air above the freezing mark, we’ll see our neighborhood in a new way — perhaps serving as a reminder to notice what has been there all along.

A Late Winter Meditation

February 27 / 27 Degrees F

It’s still cold outside, but it’s what one would expect for late February. We’ve reached that point in winter where the thrill of ice and snow has faded away (if it was ever there at all). The coats look tired hanging carelessly from the entryway rack, their outer shells dull from yet another season of fighting elements. Pilling scarves piled on top add to the tired display. Radiators clank in unison across the apartment, well worn into their duty to ignite the air to near oven roasting temperature. They’ll soon have their seasonal break, but not for a month (or two) to come. The time between radiator and air conditioner is short in New York City — a miraculous few weeks of window-opening worthy breezes replaced by the constant hum and rattle of the air conditioner’s compressor, another machine working to find twenty-first-century comfort.

February 27 / 27 Degrees F

A Toilet Blossoms in Queens

IMG_2482Seashells, far from their native land cling to the porcelain tile wall while holding silk sprigs of ivy precariously above a toilet warmed by maroon shag carpet covers. A lace doily rests gently over the edge of the toilet’s top providing the background for the symmetrically balanced display of silk and porcelain flowers. The toilet’s sole function masked behind a purply mass of artificial flowers and lace, mocking you as it clutches its pearls and asks, “how dare you?”

For all its purple and shag and lace and flowers, and, despite, or maybe because of, its unpublishablility in Interior Design magazine or Architectural Digest: I love this bathroom. Someone took the time to carefully purchase and place each one of these items. This is the anti-Pinterest, the HGTV pre-makeover gasp. Perhaps, knowing that a realtor would be showing the home today, its owner tidied up, straightening the doily, dusting the ivy, hoping that this special bathroom in Queens would impress a potential buyer.

As interior designers, it’s important that we not take ourselves too seriously. People are people and they love what they love, and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. In this era of instantaneous Instagram everything, originality is fleeting and requires us to reflect on what really makes us happy and comfortable because the lighting will never be right, someone will always have more, and the toilet will still have to be flushed.

 

A Toilet Blossoms in Queens

Morning Meditation

I meditate every morning — at least I try. I’ll sit for 10-30 minutes depending on how early I woke up and what’s on the calendar for that day. On the days that this ritual is missed, I’m more frenetic, anxious, and reactive — so the short time it takes to get centered, focus on my breath, and pay attention to the present moment are well worth the investment. I’ve carved a meditation space out of my bedroom/office behind a screen, next to my desk, on a cushion and zafu on the floor. It’s not much, but by having a small area in my home to mediate, I’ve created a commitment to practice. The morning sun shines through the window in this corner of the room, a small plant on the sill stretches toward this light getting ever closer to a pair of small, gray, Japanese ceramic vases, the sight of which reminds me of their octogenarian maker and her ceramic studio patio in Kyoto. Beyond the vases and the plant, the downtowns, Brooklyn and Manhattan, are enmeshed by the distorted perspective with the “new” World Trade Center peeking out above the Williamsburg Savings Bank Tower. It’s not quiet: construction noise abounds, fire engines at the station across the street come and go, and the LaGuardia flight path ensures a regular stream of jet engines. But, all of this: the buildings, the sunlight, airplanes, fire engines are the present. There is nothing to do but listen. When I’m working from home, and the dog wants to be near, the meditation cushion doubles as her bed, her irregular snoring and muffled barks from dreams of squirrels join the other sounds as reminders that there’s nowhere else to be.

Morning Meditation